I am relatively old-fashioned in many ways. I believe a man who wants me will respectfully pursue me. If he wants me but does not pursue me, he is not yet a man. For his efforts he'll be handsomely rewarded with my unconditional and unlimited affection, loyalty, friendship and attention. It's okay if you don't prescribe to the same thinking, you may still be a good man you just aren't the man for me! I Absolutely won't date a man who continues to play the field after we've been out a few times. This goose will cut you loose!